Marriage
is an important phase of life for everyone, but for a girl it is the most
amazing decision of her life. She dreams and wishes for her life
partner. It won’t be wrong to say, she does so since childhood. She prepares a
list in her mind:
I want a husband who would hold my hand in
lines at the mall or while crossing roads, so that I feel protected.
I want someone who would sing to me at
random moments.
Someone who would respect my maturity and
love my innocence too.
Someone who would bet with me on kisses and
let me win.
Someone who would let me fulfil my
responsibilities towards my parents and would love my family like his
own. I want a guy who will accept me with
unconditional love and make me feel a part of his family. Someone who I could share my fears, my
laughs, my smile and my tears with.
Someone who would not get angry over my mistakes instead scold me like my mother and then help me to learn doing that thing again. Appreciates me for my tiniest efforts.
But mostly, someone who would be loyal to
me, crave for me and will always be the reason for my smile.
Someone who has a heart of gold. Who is
honest, hard working and humble.
Who will have time to talk to me, listen to
me. Tolerate me in my moody times and love me at my worst. Who finds me
beautiful at every chance he gets, even if that means in my messy hair and
pyjamas. Most importantly, who is proud to have me
and is not shameful to introduce me as his own.
I don’t
want him to be an already made man with a high profile job or a car, living in
a posh estate. I know, for a fact that there is no perfect man on earth.
Waiting for him is stupidity, as a woman. I will appreciate all he strives to
be. And secretly, she promises herself that to such a guy, “I would always
prove his trust right, I would be his family and would love and respect
his parents like my very own and respect the fact that he promises me nothing,
but tries his best to give me everything I will ever need.”
Hmmm...nice keep it up
ReplyDeletethank you Imran :)
DeleteTrue, marriage is not only between 2 people, it is between two families, two cultures. It is 'we' which binds the marriage, where both "I"s tries their best to tear apart :) Good post.
ReplyDeletewell said! Thank you :)
DeleteNice one
ReplyDeleteI hope 'HE' finds you soon enough :P
ReplyDeleteI hope so too, Rafaa :P
DeleteI hope you get that man very soon ;) Indeed marriage creates a lifelong bond between 2 individuals whom you have to understand and live with and all that matters is the compatibility nd the bond itself! Good post
ReplyDeletehope so ;)
Deletethank you :D
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