People
say, 'Love is blind.' I totally disagree. Infatuation is blind, love is
all-seeing and accepting. Love is seeing all flaws and still accepting them. It
is accepting their bad habits and mannerisms, still making it work. Love is
recognizing all their insecurities and fears and understanding your role is to
comfort.
Love is
not fragile like infatuation, love will not shatter when life is imperfect, it
will instead strengthen if it is real.
At the
end of the day, it doesn't matter how much you fought or how little you talked,
if you're certain that he/she is the only person in the universe who could make
you feel loved even with their silence - you shouldn't give up at any cost!
Besides,
I feel there are some people you can't un-love. Even if God shows you their
true color over and over again, you continue to paint a different picture;
because you cannot see them in the wrong light ever. You only love and love
such people. It doesn't matter what they've said or haven't done because you
are going to love them anyway. There is going to be that soft spot in your
heart for them, a feeling of warmth that will overtake you every time you will
think of them. You just can't help loving them. Who said love is complicated?
Love is simple, it requires no reason to thrive.
Love is an oxymoron, I guess and no matter how much you wanna ignore them, they keep popping in your mind and thoughts. Beautiful reflection.
ReplyDeleteLove itself is a cruel kindness act in itself, I feel - quite an oxymoron. Well compared, Vishal! :)
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